I found this card, and its message spoke to me so deeply that I bought every copy the store had in stock. I love giving this card to women in my circle of friendship. Some I have known for years, some for days. I know when I am in the presence of a strong woman. Nothing outward, but an inner strength that comes through by way of a smile, an enthusiastic greeting, a welcoming handshake, or hug and bright eyes. Conversation can be energetic or calming. There’s no whining or wishing for something better. The attitude conveyed is, “this is where I’m at, this is what I have and I look forward to whatever the future brings.” No regrets about the past, just lessons learned. No wondering why something happened, rather, acknowledgment of what happened and how it was handled. No wish for smooth sailing, just sailing. Because these women know how to navigate the waters – smooth, choppy or torrential.
Being A Woman Of Strength – Balance, Support and Self-Worth
My women of strength know how to find balance in their life. They are always looking for ways to support and lift others up. But they also know it’s important to invest in themselves. They’re able to walk into a room and feel good about themselves. They don’t compare their hair, makeup and dress with those around them. It’s not a competition to see who looks the most stylish, well-groomed and well-preserved – their self-worth is not dependent on a designer label, a price tag or an aesthetic enhancement. If they choose any of these things it is not from peer pressure, but personal consideration.
Women of strength are not cut from the same mold. There is no template or guide to follow. They are individuals with a unique personality, identity and role in life. Some take the lead and blaze the trail. Some prefer an unassuming, slow steady march. No matter their style, they all have some things in common. They are authentic – genuine, trustworthy, realistic and dependable. They do not seek attention, but if they receive it, they manage it with humility and grace, redirecting toward worthy individuals or causes.
Discover Your Strength And Share It With Others
I believe the most important aspect of strong women is their willingness to share the imperfections of life. They do not pretend to live in a picture-perfect life. They are willing to share the difficulties and drawbacks. If they can’t fix or find solutions, they are willing to seek help, not hide in embarrassment. They don’t give up. And because of this, they become a beacon of hope for those facing life’s challenges, also.
My hope is that future generations of women will discover their own strength, continue to build it and share it generously and respectfully with others. May they honor one another’s journeys without judgment, recognizing that strength can take many forms and grow through many different experiences.
Ellen Beans
I’m originally from Arlington, NE. My husband, Pat, is from Cozad, NE. After spending the past 45 years in Lincoln, we are proud to call it our home.
I served as a Director at Bryan Health for 40 years. Pat served as the Chief Financial Officer for NRC Health for many years. He now serves as the Manager for Amandla, LLC.
We have two sons, Winston and Beau. Winston is married to Emily, and they have a daughter, Sophia, 5 years old. Beau is self-employed and works diligently to assure the success of his company. He also carries the title of Best Uncle Ever!
As the author of the Grandparent blog, I’ll be writing about the challenges and rewards of retirement. I’ll focus on the roles I have taken on in life – spouse, parent, In-law, grandparent, colleague and friend, and how they have changed over the years. This is the plan for the blog, but as we all know, plans can change!
